Why would she think it would be okay to say anything like "I wonder what it'd be like if you acted like Winter?" That's insulting even when said politely. "Why can't you be more like X?" is, to anyone's ears, the same as saying "Why can't you be better? You're not good enough as you are." I didn't think she would be this dense when it came to another person's feelings, especially Zoe's.
Why would she think it would be okay to say anything like "I wonder what it'd be like if you acted like Winter?" That's insulting even when said politely. "Why can't you be more like X?" is, to anyone's ears, the same as saying "Why can't you be better? You're not good enough as you are." I didn't think she would be this dense when it came to another person's feelings, especially Zoe's.