I know right! I rolled my eyes
I agree but I do understand them... i think... from what I see slavery is strictly forbidden there so they don't really know, or rather, are not really used, to dealing with it or someone who went through it.
Think like this... you've heard of the scandal about child labor/slavery/inhuman work conditions involving cocoa production or some brands clothes/shoes right? You can try to imagine what they went through. But if one of those people were put in front of you you would be flustered while dealing with them because their common sense is different of yours.
It's not that they don't understand from where her humility comes from... but the sheer gravity or degree of it that is shocking. It's a level of humility they never witnessed (at least from someone they cared enough about) before...
I mean obviously she'll consider anything you give her too extravagant and excessive like she was A SLAVE all her life what are y'all so surprised about. Isn't this the expected behaviour..? She's been trained to be like this so why is everyone so surprised about each and every single one of her humble reactions. It's not like they didn't know she wasn't a slave. Ffs