It's not bdsm, I'm into ravishing (aka rape play) but this wasn't it, I can pretend it was to avoid triggering myself but without a safe word rape play is just rape
ohh okay, I actually meant bdsm mainly bc of the toys and yeah the not deciding, or the author not giving us confirmation that they decided on a safe word made me kinda fussy, that's why I also thought it's rape
No I agree with your original comments, just pointing out that a lot of authors try to portray bdsm to be more spicy but do no research and end up portray physical and sexual abuse
was is the art beautiful? yeah!!
did it kinda felt like rape...? y-yeahh
But was it rape tho? nahhh, or?
I like bdsm but this was kinda... I guess weird