erm so I have a crush on my best friend and she is asexual what can I do lol I know ill ge...

sosiik April 23, 2021 5:20 am

erm so I have a crush on my best friend and she is asexual what can I do lol I know ill get hurt if I confess any help?

Responses
    nefari0us April 23, 2021 5:24 am

    Girlie, it’s better to let it out rather then keep it in and if she rejects you it’ll be ok because atleast you got it off your chest. We all face heartbreaks in our life time and it’s going to be hard but I promise you’ll push through!

    fururin April 23, 2021 5:26 am

    OMG BESTIE I MEANT TO UPVOTE

    sosiik April 23, 2021 5:28 am
    OMG BESTIE I MEANT TO UPVOTE fururin

    LOL BESTIE ITS OKAY

    sosiik April 23, 2021 5:29 am
    Girlie, it’s better to let it out rather then keep it in and if she rejects you it’ll be ok because atleast you got it off your chest. We all face heartbreaks in our life time and it’s going to be hard bu... nefari0us

    Thanks, i prob should but I think that I might ruin our friendship and I don't want to lose her

    ikigai April 23, 2021 5:33 am

    Just talk to her and let her know how you feel. She may be asexual but not aromantic. Even in asexuality there are so many different levels and comforts. Talk to her and get a sense for how she feels and if she could ever see you two in a relationship. If not, don’t worry! It’s not the end of the world. I’ve had a 2 separate friends confess to me and me not reciprocate and still continue to have just as strong of a relationship. If anything, no one minds being told that they’re liked.

    nefari0us April 23, 2021 5:42 am
    Thanks, i prob should but I think that I might ruin our friendship and I don't want to lose her sosiik

    OK GIRLIE if she is gonna let your feelings stop being friends with you then she ain’t worth it! You confessed to her ok you can’t help it. If she cares about you she wouldn’t let it get in the way of y’all’s friendships! Like she’s your bestie YOU GOT THIS I BELIEVE I BELIEVE IN YOU!! You’re beautiful, you’re smart, you’re amazing, you’re kind like if she rejects you that’s ok you’ll get through it, we’ll get through it

    um- April 23, 2021 6:13 pm

    asexual means she's not sexually attracted to people, you could try telling her as not all asexual people are directly aromantic, they just don't have sexual desire :)