While I do agree with most of your statement. Toxic masculinity encompasses the idea that being a bottom is inferior and a “less of a man” when it’s not. It ties in with the idea that it’s a woman “position”. So that idea is misogynistic when-being in the woman’s “position” isnt lesser than being a man and should be viewed equally. Having a better outlook on one position is toxic masculinity. So there rlly shouldn’t be a problem with pple making him a bottom. I understand that guys can be uncomfortable being sexualize but that’s a different story than hating on being a bottom if that makes sense.
oh no i know what you mean but most of the comments stating hes a bottom is due to his kind gentle nature and its kinda sad to see that men cannot express themselves in more of a "feminine" nature without people saying "hes a bottom"
theres nothing wrong with being a bottom i was just trying to say that just because someone is soft doesnt equal being a bottom if you get what im trying to say.
sorry if i didnt express that better
just adding to what i am saying sorry,
not all bottoms have to be soft to be a bottom, i think the reason why im saying all of this is because there is alot of people thinking that soft = bottom in a gay relationship kinda feeds into the hetero idealism.
whatever a person is a top, bottom, verse, or none shouldnt exactly correlate to the persons personality and look is what im trying to emphasize
Wait, you ship Gallahan with who?
with myself-
sjdnfkjsdfknsjd to be honest, no one i was just saying if people wanna ship him with someone of the same gender i wouldnt mind
Ooh okay I thought someone is shipping with another man. Hahaha I mean Im fine with that but I really don't feel like shipping him with a man since like you, I ship him with myself HAHAHAHA
i just want to make it clear that submissive personality men doesnt equal bottom, its kinda a stereotype and its not a healthy mindset. also its fine to ship the mc dad with another man, just ask if yall dont sexualize him and call him a bottom just due to his kind nature.
Theres a reason why alot of men isnt comfortable with femininity and being gentle because then everyone calls them a bottom, not a man, ect....
toxic masculinity is real people and yall shouldnt judge a character due to their personality nor look
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