Can y’all tell me why you think it’s rapey I don’t get

YoU ArE mY BaKa April 28, 2021 7:38 am

Can y’all tell me why you think it’s rapey I don’t get

Responses
    Radical April 28, 2021 3:16 pm

    It's because the seme is ignoring what the uke is saying. When the uke says "wait", they don't care and just continue going at their own pace. Plus the uke says they want to stop and that they can't go anymore, and the seme is just like "nah lets continue cause I wanna". He isn't being very understanding and patient and kinda forcing him when the uke clearly is tired and wants to stop.

    I_simp_for_animated_dudes April 28, 2021 5:03 pm
    It's because the seme is ignoring what the uke is saying. When the uke says "wait", they don't care and just continue going at their own pace. Plus the uke says they want to stop and that they can't go anymore,... Radical

    Bitch that’s not rape tf don’t you see him dreaming about it and stuff and if he didn’t want to do it he would have started fight or something ( ̄へ ̄)Not just say “ stop” like.....It’s not rape

    Radical April 28, 2021 5:35 pm

    That's why it seems rapey. It's just kinda sus how the seme is ignoring everything the uke is saying, especially since the uke specifically said they didn't want to and couldn't continue and the seme was just "nah". You can consent to one thing, but it doesn't mean you consent to everything else. You should also be allowed to stop at any time. Consent can be taken back during the act.

    Also just because someone dreams about fucking someone or finds someone attractive doesn't mean they consent to it if it happens irl. If they're not comfortable or ok with it in that moment and they're being forced to do it then yeah, it's rape. Also not everyone has the ability to fight back in situations like that, whether it be them being paralyzed by fear or too afraid to fight back in fear of getting hurt even more. Saying "stop" and that person not stopping can be rape. There's usually a reason someone might say "stop" during sex, whether it be because they're uncomfortable with that particular action, it hurts and they need time to adjust or just want to stop because it hurts, or they just don't want to do anything and want it all to be over with. If you want you or your partner to be able to say things like "stop" during sex without it actually meaning anything then come up with a safe word that can be said for when you or your partner actually want to stop.

    YoU ArE mY BaKa April 28, 2021 6:41 pm
    That's why it seems rapey. It's just kinda sus how the seme is ignoring everything the uke is saying, especially since the uke specifically said they didn't want to and couldn't continue and the seme was just "... Radical

    I get what your saying but when the uke does say “stop” or “wait” the seme does stop lol

    Radical April 28, 2021 6:46 pm
    I get what your saying but when the uke does say “stop” or “wait” the seme does stop lol YoU ArE mY BaKa

    Kinda, but it's mainly towards the end where the uke says "I can't... no.. more..." and the seme replies with "I'm sorry. but... I've been holding back for a long time" and then gets ready to continue ^^;

    YoU ArE mY BaKa April 28, 2021 6:53 pm
    Kinda, but it's mainly towards the end where the uke says "I can't... no.. more..." and the seme replies with "I'm sorry. but... I've been holding back for a long time" and then gets ready to continue ^^; Radical

    Ya but most semes do that but I get what you mean lol but I think there kinda cute

    lii April 29, 2021 8:03 pm
    Bitch that’s not rape tf don’t you see him dreaming about it and stuff and if he didn’t want to do it he would have started fight or something ( ̄へ ̄)Not just say “ stop” like.....It’s not ... I_simp_for_animated_dudes

    its rapey u weirdo

    YoU ArE mY BaKa April 29, 2021 10:05 pm
    its rapey u weirdo lii

    How am I weird all I said I get what they were saying?