as an Asexual person i really really really love this manga

I'm really glad you're saying that! I'm not asexual so I would never completely understand your or others' positions. I'm really glad that this story, whether he is asexual or not, is having a discussion about the boundaries we have in regards to sex. I don't know how you feel but I personally feel that even if he doesn't identify as asexual, we can see his growth as a person who stops feeling guilt for just being him. And if he is, I'm glad that there is representation and discussion about how complex relationships and people are.