
That's her character though. If she all of a sudden started to realize the attention she gets from men, she would probably have a different personality. I think the present her is cute. AND the husband does have some fault for not explaining his feelings for her by talking to her seriously.

I don't know... Would you rather,
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" oh I think he likes me." " I have to be careful I'm so cute." "Maybe he really loves me and doesn't want to say... But I don't want to say it first."
I think clueless is more natural especially if she isn't an arrogant person, and if you never knew love, would you know what it feels like just by someone else's description... Kind of like driving you have a regular paper test and an actual driving test.
Ester is starting to piss me off. Beside being clueless about Leon she can't even tell when a guy is flirting with her and why her husband gets mad. There is a limit to being obtuse.