
I don't think it would be correct to calify it as homophobia, it's just your personal preference, and maybe you feel bad because you are unsure of the correct terms or maybe just need to look some information up, it would be homophobic if you critizice someone who is gay, if that someone happens to be in a poly relantionship that's a whole other topic, but personally I believe you are completely ententiled to decide who and how you date, by all means I encorage you to search for more information, do not just stay with the info this comment section gives you, but like I said previously Poligamy has nothing to do with sexuality/sexual orentation, so you are not discriminating anybody, some people are cut out to love or date many at the same time, others don't, it's just that, sorry for the long ass text, hope it could help to ease your worries
have a nice day xo (⌒▽⌒)

I don't think it's homophobic. Maybe there's a reason why? Like u said with ur trauma. Maybe it would make you anxious idrk the situation though so it's hard to get a lot of insite on why but you don't have to if you don't want to. As long as I don't criticize them for having that orientation then it's not homophobia
Is it homophobic of me to not want to fate polygamy people for some reason i will start crying or have this bothered feeling about it idk it makes me feel like a bad person to not want to date some people jylust because of their sexuality but no matter how hard i try it just hating myself and not being to stand in that kind of relationship im sorry idk what to do but i just cant im genuinely scared to in those relationship