Okay so the beginning of what I said cut off. idk why but it did, I was talking bout the fml as well as some other stuff but I forgot.
The first person I talked about was the fml. Because she can’t say what she needs to say. She’s always making up answers. or already thinking of answers the ml is going to give her, with out asking him, or telling him what she needs to say. Which is annoying. I understand that she may be worried or something. but closed mouths don’t get fed, she has to speak up and Ik she can she’s done it several times as the ml. But her personality gives me whiplash she’s all brave and shit as the ml. but timid as fuck as her self. Ik confidence plays a big role in that but if she doesn’t punch a bitch I will.
Another thing she clearly has depression, suicidal thoughts, committed suicide twice. etc. The list goes on with her. I wanted to say this because they both have problems not just the ml. Her problems may have only been for three years but to her it felt like forever. The ml on the other hand went through shit his whole life. His childhood etc. Shaped his personality. So i can’t hate him. when people go through things or shit happens people change. Or it makes them who they are.
( I’m not hating on her though. I’m just pointing out facts on both sides. I didn’t want to just go in on the ml. they both have problems like all relationships do ).
i agree with everything but the fml ALWAYS get interrupted when she try and speak up ESPECIALLY WITH THE ML LIKE COME ON LET HER SPEAK FOR ONCE i guess she got more confidence to talk in the ml's body cause people are naturally intimidated by him? but ugh yeah overall this shit is FRUSTRATING
the ml can’t communicate. can’t express himself nor his emotions well. loves the fml and doesn’t know how to show her love, other than giving her material things. ( the excessive gifts he sends her and the bitch in law sends back. saying the fml doesn’t want them. I’m saying this because she didn’t even know about the dresses and gifts etc. She thinks he’s having an affair). The ml thinks money can solve everything because he had a shitty child hood, and learned the value of money and how valuable it is.
He has one thing right though The world revolves around money. you have money your good you don’t your fucked. He probably thought she wouldn’t love him anymore if he didn’t have money. plus the money SHE was “spending”. wasn’t even her, it was those bitch ass in laws and her dumb ass stupid ass petty ass brother. So he out here making all this money to make her happy and they spending that shit. And making it seem like she’s all good and happy. (Remember the bitch in law sent a letter to the ml, but the fml was in his body and the bitch in law was telling him how the fml cut her hair and to compliment her.)
they both seeing things completely different. he think shes well and has all the money in the world to spend but doesn’t like him. keeps sending his gifts back ain’t making small talk no more. only wants him to come to parties because others want him there. She thinks he hates her and doesn’t care for her and thinks she’s a bother to everyone around her. But they’re starting to realize that now, especially the ml. He seeing everything isn’t as sweet as he thought it was with the fml.
As for the affection thing People love in different ways. some love with affection and physically. Others materialistically and lavishly. Some love cute relationships others toxic relationships. It depends on the person, the fml likes affection and the ml thinks she likes money. They didn’t meet each other before they were married like people do now. They met on their wedding day, literally. So they really don’t know shit about each other. She doesn’t know his personality neither does he know hers. they’re only just starting to know each other, after the fmls suicide attempts and body swapping. Which is the most shittiest way to get to know someone. Remember he doesn’t know they swap because she commits suicide.