I also really like how careful the dom is! like he’s really focused on developing the sub and making sure not to go to fast like the uke is willing to do whatever the seme wants because ~love~ lol but the dom is responsible and still takes it slow, making sure that whatever plays they DO do are also pleasurable for the uke and not too mentally or physically over stimulating, it was really nice to see in a bl manga
Sorry I meant to like
Aw no problem.
Yup. Exactly.
Sigh... people really do be thinking all doms are irrationally sadistic and controlling. We aren’t ‘supposed’ to be like that. Those kind of doms are pseudo-doms and are toxic if not straight up abusive. And there are all different kinds of doms to tbh, doms that enjoy providing pleasure through pain or bondage or maybe are more into DS or B&D instead of S&M or vice versa...
But in all situations the M’s/sub’s safety is imperative as things could go wrong so fast and no one wants that. That’s also why I liked that they brought up safe words in this manhwa too.