She neglected her son because she couldn't blame anyone for her misfortunes. She didn't understood she was doing wrong back then cause she was too young for it and lonely. So she attended partys to forget all shit. But when she realized it was too late and thought wasn't worthy of forgiveness and let it be. Now she got a second chance.
You're right. Her son also thought along the same line. He said his mother is pitiful.
All of the above. She was so young when she got pregnant and couldn't cope with the changing lifestyle (not being able to attend parties anymore, not being admired, etc.) And those around her only cared about her unborn child and not how she felt during the pregnancy(she was also forced to assume the role of how a mother should be because of societal pressure). Basically, ppl ignored that she was a person who had hopes and dreams independent from her child and being a mother. Then, she had to deal with her husband leaving for war, the death of a family member, and more while she was pregnant. Unsurprisingly, she suffered from postpartum depression when her baby was born because she was basically told that her only worth was conceiving a child and being a mother (since no one in the household allowed her to get involved in financial affairs or do anything else).So she started to resent her child because she could no longer do things she desired (like attending dances or other things she loved) because society was forcing her to be a stay at home mother and that society was telling her that she had no value aside from that. Therefore, she rebelled in her own way by ignoring her child that society and ppl cherished and valued above her and instead focused on just doing what she wanted.
Boy u know I gotta say if my mom didn't look after me and acted cold to me from 10 yrs and th n suddenly she started to smile and all that without us knowing what happened for her to have changed like that... I wouldn't hate her but I wouldn't trust her either I'd have think she has an ulterior motive to do something to me other me on her good side
But the reason I wouldn't hate her is bcs she didn't abuse me physically
I feel for the mother too at such an young age she got pregnant, her husband went to war with his father, the father cme bk dead but the husband was missing and said to be dead, for months she waited with the husband's relative telling her all sort of nonscense, she finally dicided to listen to the husband's family to carry the father's funeral suddenly the husband barged in with a tun of blood on him, she was traumatized and then soon after had to give birth and bcs her son looked like we husband her didn't like him
Soo she was traumatized huh, they all brushed it off and said she wanted space and sent her to a place, so how did the love parting part come in I dnt rlly get it though I've read it
Did she neglect her son to attend parties, or did she do it bcs she was traumatized by what happened when she was pregnant?or did she attend parties to forget about what happened when she was pregnant and still didn't want to look after her son?
U know if I was her and I saw hw much my sister had suffered on and on going threw miscarriages I wouldn't have neglected my child and then realized it was a bitched up thing to do the moment I die, goodness suppose she didn't cme bk