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The story is about them who else is taesung supposed to be focusing on. People don't know what they want I swear and people like you are annoying bruh. like if he wasn't paying attention to him it would be a problem and he is but it's a problem as well. They both rely on each other for everything not just Taesung

honestly you do make a good point. however, this is a manhwa meant to focus on romance and not necessarily the realistic part of life. sometimes i like it when fiction is realistic, sometimes i like when it's just a fantasy meant for escapism. it just depends what you're looking for and realistically in a relationship you shouldn't make somebody your everything... but like another reply said this is a manhwa focused on relationships and the good side of it

It's actually meant to focus on romance and realistic part of life. After all they've been through wouldn't you say some people actually go through these things and that's why I like this manhwa because it portray some realness. What they have is real love and they depend on each other cause taesung doesn't have anyone and with his parents their not close at all and haebom is an orphan. He's haebom everything as well!!!! Don't you think that's what love is??? and that's what the manhwa has been portraying since the beginning. What else does Taesung have to cherish? What wrong with cherishing what you have, people don't ever know what they have till they loose them and I feel like your one of these people who'll never know what they till they loose them. I know were not talking realistically and it doesn't have anything to do with the manhwa but why do you think relationship don't last long especially with our generation? It's a genuine question lol and tbh I would love for a person to love me like taesung love haebom cause with this generation we don't have that luxury here.

I get what you're saying, but you don't have to put assumptions on people just because they agree or disagree on something. I get what you're getting at but at a realistic standpoint it might seem suffocating for someone if that was the sense. Of course not for Haebom because as you said this is focused on their pure romance, but if you're going to talk about a realistic standpoint then it's not the same. Would you be okay with your lover following you around all through out your life purely just focusing on you and not their on ambitions? I'm not saying Taesung doesn't have his own ambitions just because he's mostly doing everything because of Haebom and for Haebom, but in a realistic view having your lover purely focus on yourself is called being to dependent and you would rather want them to focus on what they want to achieve for their future because at the end of the day you only really ever have yourself, it's never bad to want to look out for other people but it never hurts to want to do something on your own accord and not just because of someone else.

i understand that the fact that they only have each other is pretty much the whole point of the story, but it's also my point that this is a fiction meant to show the good side of a life that only revolves around your s/o. realistically, i think it will be hard for a couple to work and live together, that's why i don't think this manhwa was written to portray a realistic relationship in my opinion.

as for why i don't think relationships last long in this generation... there are many factors exclusive to this era that contribute, i'm sure there are studies out there with evidence but from my own interpretation, much has to do with the socioeconomic differences between now and our parents' or grandparents age. from an economic view, people nowadays are finding more financial trouble due to inflation and changes to the job and housing market which can cause strain to a relationship. also, feminism has contributed to the divorce rate as well. it was harder for women to leave abusive relationships back then and there weren't more resources for them because misogyny was much more normal. and of course for same sex couples there was much more stigma which would cause lgbt people to hide their identity.

your assumption about me is quite large... haha. not everyone has the same love language and preferred relationship dynamic and i think you need to learn to accept that everyone has a different way of cherishing their loved one. not everyone wants to be around their s/o 24/7 like you, even if they love them to death. being with somebody should not mean you lose your individuality. however, if this is how you perceive love then that's alright, it's your opinion but don't expect everyone you date to have this same narrative.