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bars!!!! you said it all well. i hope he'll communicate properly with suha before things get out of hand
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bars!!!! you said it all well. i hope he'll communicate properly with suha before things get out of hand
Jiwoon’s fear and possessiveness is coming from being traumatized and having PTSD from multiple incidents. His intentions are/were good but we still need to recognized that he is displaying TOXIC behavior! I know many of y’all are agitated by so many of us labeling it as toxic so let’s go thru the FACTS
1) He stole Suha’s phone
2) He lied about it
3) He makes Suha tell him WHENEVER he leaves the house
4) He “jokingly” tells Suha that he will have to make it up to him if he breaks that rule
Is he as bad as redhead? ABSOLUTELY NOT.
Are these behaviors still toxic? YES.
I know some of y’all don’t want to hear it but you need to hold Jiwoon accountable for these behaviors
Is everything lost? NO. Do they still have a chance as a couple? YES. But only with honest and open communication, and probably therapy if we’re being honest.
ALL IS NOT LOST but we still need to recognize that Jiwoon has crossed a line and if he does not admit it, it will cause major issues in their relationship down the line