
I can judge how I wish to. I understand people can change, but some people are far from redeemable. In MY opinion, it's almost absurd for him to have a genuine character development. I don't mind, I just want Yu-er to remain the strong and independent character he is. I am judging him for what he is currently, not the person he may change to be in the future.

I already said it. Yuer gonna stand still till the end, he put up a front like a strong man, despise Junxuan till that man give up his life to protect yuer.
There are many situation could force someone to change either they want it or not. Love kindness lonelines, those three couldnt be describe with solid meaning but it affect people greatly. It could save you or drown you.
Aaand two of them will change junxuan.
I'll be damned if it ends with a shitty 'character development' and Yu-er loses his independence.