Don't Hate Seme just yet

RenRen June 18, 2016 5:28 am

Let's give him a chance guys. Sure he came off as an ass in chapter 1 but I think he's just bad when it comes to love. He's never love anyone his whole life. No attachment/commitment either.
As the manga unfolds I'm sure he'll realize his feelings and be a better person. His love for the Uke will change him and that's what I like
P.S.: He's not a cheater yet because 1) They aren't dating right now and 2) He didn't actually do anything w the second call girl. Boy couldn't get it up while thinking of his Uke.

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    bakamono June 18, 2016 5:47 am

    I do understand where you're coming from and I'm actually looking forward to see the seme to mature. However I'm still angry at him. I'm not angry at the seme for sleeping with women. Its not a serious relationship and he didn't know that Akira was in love with him yet.

    What annoys me the most (in chapter 1) is that he just uses Akira's room to have sex when he wants too. He doesn't even bother asking for permission, I think that's inconsiderate and rude. I'm in college right now and a roommate wanting some time alone to get intimate with their special someone is understandable but at least have the courtesy to ask first. Especially since they have their own room so there's no reason for him to go into Akira's room.

    In chapter 2, I'm still okay with him sleeping around. After all he's not in a relationship with Akira yet.

    What I can't forgive is that he realize that Akira has a thing for him, yet he spoke about having sex with another women.

    Even if you don't like the guy, you should should have some consideration as a friend.

    Henceforth I agree, I think he's a noob in love and friendship esp with Akira. He just assumes that Akira would forgive him no matter what he do, so he's totally taking Akira for granted.

    However story like this could be intriguing and has lot of potential (esp if the author plays their cards right)... Truth be told, I'm a sucker when a character changes for the one they love. The seme maybe inconsiderate but I see potential in him. (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ

    nicadareas June 18, 2016 12:12 pm
    I do understand where you're coming from and I'm actually looking forward to see the seme to mature. However I'm still angry at him. I'm not angry at the seme for sleeping with women. Its not a serious relation... bakamono

    I agree, except about the talking about sex with a woman part. I think he was subconsciously trying to push Akira into making a declaration or an ultimatum therefore giving them a chance to further their own relationship when the seme told him about the call girl in chapter 2. He just didn't realize himself what he was doing until later when he was watching Akira sleep.

    bakamono June 18, 2016 4:48 pm
    I agree, except about the talking about sex with a woman part. I think he was subconsciously trying to push Akira into making a declaration or an ultimatum therefore giving them a chance to further their own r... nicadareas

    I know he was subconsciously trying to push Akira to deepen their relationship. However of all things he say and done it had to be that. Personally, I would be super piss if someone I like tell me that they just have sex with someone else after they find out I had feelings for them, even if they didn't mean to say it and that it was all a lie, I would still be super mad and hurt. Of course it doesn't mean that I will give up at that person nor would I confront them for it (since we would not be in a relationship) but I would be sad, hurt, angry (a bunch of negative feelings), henceforth I conclude that Akira is more patient of a person than I am.

    As I mention above, I find the seme to be a noob when it comes to love. Althrough it seems that he's made love countless time, he doesn't know how to truly love someone else. Sleeping with another women is a prefect example of his lack of experience. So at the same time it annoys me that he lie to Akira, the fact that he realize soon after that he did a bad thing and regretted his decision that I also see that the seme has potential to grow.

    nicadareas June 19, 2016 2:59 am
    I know he was subconsciously trying to push Akira to deepen their relationship. However of all things he say and done it had to be that. Personally, I would be super piss if someone I like tell me that they jus... bakamono

    I do agree with you. I honestly don't know if I wouldn't give up if the person I liked said that. The seme here doesn't seem to realize the reason he himself is doing it. That doesn't make it okay or any less painful for Akira, but the seme still hasn't figured out at the time he says this that he actually wants a relationship with Akira. He said himself that he's never dated a girl; he finds the very idea of relationships too troublesome. It's such a foreign concept to him that it will probably hit him like a kick to the face when he realizes he actually likes Akira.

    bakamono June 19, 2016 3:15 am

    Yes, I wouldn't either. Love isn't just sunshine and rainbow. If you're ready to fall in love than you must prepare to get hurt yourself. Plus if your feelings could change that easily than maybe you never truly love the person.

    haha I agree. I would love to see him realizes that he likes Akira.

    RenRen June 19, 2016 4:22 am

    To me the Uke is very relatable. I think I would react the same way if the one I had confessed to told me he just slept with another woman.....so it truly hurts to see him holding it in. Seme is a jerk. An extreme noob to love.

    But @bakamono I am too a sucker for positive character development stories so we shall wait and hope that the mangaka writes this well enough for the Seme to redeem himself in the future!