you can forgive someone but you will never forget....and it does not mean that just because you forgive them (to get closure with yourself) that your relationship will be the same or continue....i would allow him to explain himself, understand him, forgive him and ask him to never meet again. I cannot deal with people who would rather play twisted games with me, instead of being honest or if they cannot be honest just keep it as is and go with the flow of things. That is such a painful betrayal. I cannot deal with such things. No matter how much they claim to love me and how they did it out of love, like why? What love is that supposed to be? That kind of ugly twisted shit is ego excused by love not real love....
i agree, i would never forgive it if my crush did this, especially if it'a a childhood friend. :/ its's sick. but i know the author is gonna make them end up together. but if this happened in real life, i don't think it would end up well
like it is okay to be selfish. but be selfish without intentionally harming others with it. he is selfish because he is afraid to get rejected, be the vulnerable one and get exposed and be the one responsible if things go awry because he is straightforward to uke...so he ignores that uke has feelings to, if not required love, he has platonic love and trust in him as his childhood friend....and he goes and puts him not situaition no one would want for themselves: Your boyfriend go on way to non-friend like dates with someone else, your boyfriend spend more of their rare free time with others without explaining it to you, your boyfriend come onto others and kiss them and make out with them with the intention of going all the way with someone that is not you excusing it with "i was drunk"....no one wants that....uke does not want that for himself and does not want to be put into the position of being someone that does that to someone else either....and his supposedly best friend is putting him into such a situation....such disgusting twisted temptation through targeting his weakness which is his love for seme....it`s just such an intentional disregard for the uses pride, feelings, loyalty and trust it's crazy.....he doesn't deserve forgiveness, but you can like i said get closure if you distance yourself from the situation intentionally (cutting off) and forgive them like a stranger would....and then leave this person that would rather cause you hurt on different levels than be honest with himself and you....and even bring others into his schemes to expose you even more as the ridiculous one....
this is so cruel. i know he will forgive him, but i hope he doesn't give in too easily