All very true... just one thing: no one is ever *really* ready to have a baby - your life changes so much. But if you're not prepared to deal with the changes or at least have a plan, it's insanely hard. My sister has 3 kids, her husband works nights, she's basically a single mother (he does help out). She knew this when they had kids and got married so she depended on my parents and me. You need support.
My sister has 5 kids and the husband wasn’t there for a long time it’s a long story but she was basically taking care of all of them herself I would try my best to help but the mom wasn’t exactly in the right in this story but she probably wasn’t expecting to take care of the child herself idk
Honestly there are a lot of things that could happen when having a baby and it’s sad that she had to take care of it alone because he would work she could of even had postpartum depression or something like that it’s why having a baby when not ready is not a good thing