For most people blowing someone is more intimate than having sex. Alathriel
And that’s super valid, I just think it’s interesting that the bulk of BL I read have characters who blow to get out of sex so its, in my experience, been on the more rare side to see it reversed in this instance
Yaoi Logic::
I WON’T blow you!!
…but I’ll have sex with you?
*facepalm*