i've been trying to figure out what's up with him too, i mean i guess something related to a trust issue but how severe is the question... but it gets really tiresome to think so i'll just indulge in the enigmatic charms he is offering us a lot of. we can all just scream at him when it's time i guess hahaha
i kinda already knew what kind of person he is from the start tbh. i feel like he has some kind of bad experience with love & dependency. him trying to make other people love him and depend on him then leave that person also reflects on himself. didn’t he had a talk with his friend ? where it was hinted that he has some kind of sad past ? i think he is using other people to convince himself. like now it’s not him that’s going to fall, it’s the other person. overall, he is an extremely closed off dude that wanted other people to feel what he felt. that’s what i got from him, personally.
yeah that convo with his friend definitely gave a few hints of his past. he probably had a relationship that either came apart because he couldn't give enough or one where he was extorted so much that he just developed this mindset that a relationship works best in your favor if you just give and give but not expect anything from the other person. hopefully he unlearns that and eventually becomes happy.
now i personally wouldn’t say i don’t trust him but i’m not saying i trust him either at least not completely, honestly it’s hard to see what he’s thinking and it’s hard to pinpoint why exactly he’s like this, i can make up a few theory’s but there’s really no telling if it’s true or not cuz there’s not a lot to go off of. He’s very well reserved and closed off it’s hard to get anything out of him, all in all he’s a really confusing person but i mean at least he’s hot