
maybe cause taehwan has a whole reason as to why he’s a jerk to yeonwu?? literally he was sexually assulted by someone who was gay and when he was asleep someone he considered a friend (who WAS YEONWU) decided to overstep boundaries and kiss him while he was asleep WITHOUT CONSENT?? it’s always “consent matters” until it comes to someone who’s a jerk, taehwan had every right to be rude to yeonwu after kissing him non consensually and he still hangs with him meaning he’s choosing to forgive him and is probably starting to like him, but at the time i don’t think he’d want to be nice to someone he considered a friend who literally sexually harrassed him lol

Really? He kissed him and... well that wasn't even kiss it was just butterfly touch. I know it's bad but... they were kids and they are just humans and humans do/did/done mistakes/bad decision/wrong behavior. It's what makes you human. He didn't give him a chance to apologize properly or.. you know in any kind of relationship you have two people. Two individuals with their own paths. If something happens in any relationship both of them are responsible. Someone more another one less

lol no he doesn't have the right to be sexually exploitative + abusive. the amount of stuff taehwan has done is way worse, yeonwu clearly doesn't have the self esteem to say no when it's too aggressive which taehwan knows and takes advantage of - which is exploitative. what yeonwu did was bad, but to abuse him this much as penance for pecking his lips as a kid, is a joke now lol. to bring up past abuse isn't an excuse for hurting people, that's how the cycle of abuse carries on. most abusers were abused too, doesn't give them an excuse to do it too

Nah yes and the fact that all that time taehwan was the one who initiated the interaction with yeonwu being so touchy when they're only a FRIEND, he bassically leading yeonwu on (yeonwu never reaching out to taehwan first) and u said that it was fair reason for taehwan to abuse and humiliate yeonwu i honestly dk what to say

kids my ass bro they were literally in high school, and no it wasn’t just a kiss cause it wasn’t consensual!! it was non consensual therefore it was sexual harassment, taehwan never agreed nor consented for that kiss cause he was literally asleep, if he was asleep and yeonwu fucked him then it would be a different story cause to you guys, the only reasonable sexual harassment is being raped even tho being touched where you don’t wanna be touched, kissed, grouped etc. are all forms of sexual harassment but no! you don’t see that in your eyes who cares if it was a butterlfy touch, it was sexual sexual harassment cause taehwan NEVER!!!CONSENTED!! please get that through your head

ok you might be a bit slow so lemme break this down for you, their relationship is a bdsm relationship!! you understand what bdsm is right?! ok good! yeonwu knows how to say no so don’t baby him down to not being able to, he just enjoys the pleasure from someone he literally has liked for years and who is finally not being so closed off with the sex like tell me where taehwan was being abusive? when, where, and how cause if I RECALL! at first taehwan was hesitant with the sex and never wanted to look at yeonwu but yeonwu kept going kissing his hands, licking cum off of him etc. basically saying he wants more with every chance he gets, if I RECALL! yeonwu is into this shit cause he’s literally a masochist, please look up what bdsm instead of going off of bj alex or sum cause this is not abuse also wdym “the stuff taehwan did was way worse”? soooo you’re telling me! taehwan having sex with someone who wanted to have sex with taehean and has liked him for years and finally giving it to him and is now becoming closer by touching him and looking at him is worse than taehwan being literally sexually harassed by a fucking grown ass man, and then when he gets to america, a guy he considered his friend decided to kiss him when he was asleep and overstep boundaries?? yeonwu has been through worse?? oh okay! yeah yeah yeah okay (also sorry for this being long but frankly idgaf)

you clearly don’t get it too but the amount of stares yeonwu has given taehwan wanting to fuck him clearly means yeonwu wanted to have sex first, and taehwan literally had sex with him cause he saw his toys and saw the stuff he did, yeonwu is the one keeping it going by doing seductive stuff to him, i suggest you reread this whole season cause both of ya’ll confused asf rn

Taehwan has no self awareness as a dom he don't even take care of yw after the sex when aftercare is necessary in bdsm. He can't even recognize the harm he grave to yw not only with the unsafe Bdsm, but also emotional. Yes i know they haven't talked about this but taehwan hold more power in their arrangement clearly

aftercare isn’t always in bdsm relationships, actually aftercare is in many relationships after sex, just more common in bdsm but obviously taehwan probably still holds a grudge (a little bit) so he won’t be as caring as ppl expect him to be until his growth and realizes his feelings for yeonwu, i do agree that the way he’s acting is a little off putting but it’s not abusive, just him playing role as a dom. we all just gotta wait for his character development cause he wouldn’t be nice to yeonwu after what he did lol, also sorry if i came off as rude or smth, i just don’t like ppl who call taehwan abusive when he clearly isn’t that
Just get togethet with the ALEX ALREADYYYY , Taehwan acted like a jerk so many freaking timesss and i can't even understand why the heckk the uke is still likes him UGHH YOU THINK LOVE IS BLIND? NO BABEE U ARE BLINDD