Obviously we've seen that the seme has some sadistic traits, duh, but he is handling it and I don't think that's reason for hating him. AND, if Yuu accepts him, what's there saying Yuu might not be into that sort of play? ( ° ʖ °)
I don't hate the guy, I'm just waiting for him to find out that because of his actions 12 years ago, the uke ended up in the hospital. He clearly has no clue. And to apologize BIG TIME. No matter what their relationship dynamics is, nothing justifies hurting someone to the point of sending them to the ER (not the uke's consent, not his "lack of resistance", not nothing). Also, it's pretty obvious we still haven't learned enough of what happened in the past for their interactions to be like this. I'm waiting for the author to expain it a bit more.
I have a feeling that though that time was their first intercourse, it may not have been their first sexual exchange: maybe there was a bj or sth before, which totally caused the uke to freak out and "blame" the seme, and may be THAT's why the seme is now accusing him of laying the blame all on him. Still, this is all just speculation.
There are big communication issues between the both of them. They should really take a moment to speak out about what happened back then. I feel like there are both misunderstandings and unuttered feelings in play here.
Come on, don't you understand? He has been holding his feelings shut for years, the fact that he is crying is good! Look at the picture, does he seem sad, angry? He seems pretty damn happy, because I think what he feared was confirmed not to happen. To me it seems that the whole situation with the rape was partially that Yuu was scared of "making his friend gay", a common topic in yaoi, and thus he didn't dare go through with it. the PDA now showed that he was not ashamed for being in love with a guy, and I think it was a big relief for Yuu to see that. That relief made him cry.
Just my observation ╮(￣▽￣)╭