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Your partner is going to be biologically another child’s parent. It’ll be hard for the child if your partner doesn’t want to be in their life, and it’ll be hard on your partner too. That’s why most sperm or egg donors(who sell theirs for money) prefer to be anonymous and sign contracts with the receiving party that they won’t have to be a part of the child’s life in any way.
On the other hand, I think if your partner doesn’t agree, it can be seen as controlling. It can also be a big gap in ideals between you and your partner, for example Alex wants children and cole doesn’t.

can someone explain to me why your partner donating sperm is such a big deal cuz i really don't get it