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That doesn't mean a relationship for 3 people. There's OPEN relationships, there's poly, there's only playing with a 3rd together, the options aren't limited to something like poly. They're currently 3 sex partners. Even if redhead gets with dark haired subby, they wouldn't be "poly", I think you're mistaking poly to mean dating multiple people. She's not interested in dating everyone she plays with.

but. yes theres a but, theres always a chance that at least one of them is going to get hurt.