guys like I'm on verge of confusion and disagreement

sammy July 6, 2021 5:55 pm

most of ya are like that's rape on the last chapter but ...the omega did give him concent for sex by taking the initiative with that note and what yada didn't give concent for was impregnation, is that even rape??????????? ok that alpha was wrong for forcing him to bear his child but things worked out at last nah but for sex he had the concent so will that be even considered rape??? I guess NOOOO

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    Ani July 7, 2021 2:53 pm

    I feel like it's easy to gloss over cus in omegaverse stuff heat tends to be considered this sorta illogical/not yourself/no self-control state

    Butttttt irl, that would have definitely been non-consentual. Consent has to be there every step of the way. Like, if your SO teases you about having sex later in the day but then says they're not in the mood when that time comes around, if you try to sleep with them then it's rape/assault.

    Similarly, someone can be interested in sex at the beginning of the interaction but can then have something they're uncomfortable with, or hit their point of tolerance and tap out. And if that's pushed after they tell you to stop, it's rape. Most of Haga saying "stop" wasn't written to actually mean "stop" but more as a typical "moan" sorta thing. But Haga clearly doesn't want kids right now and that was getting pushed, so he seemed to be freaking out a bit over that and seriously wanted the interaction to stop. So yea at that point it's rape. In a normal situation, there should've been communication anyways about if he actually meant stop when he said it but yea.

    Like imagine a couple is using birth control as a contraceptive and it's apparent the guy doesn't want kids. If the girl has him tied down to the bed cus of a kink, and tells him as he's about to finish that she hasn't taken birth control and wants kids with him.... He's gonna freak out and want to stop, yea? This situation isn't too far off of that. Namikawa was disregarding Haga's boundaries and wants

    (Sorry about the long post)