yeah but, as you said, every young guy wanted to, but if you know you have heavy responsibilities, you don't do it, you know? and he had a loving family, leaving like that is almost like he did it out of joke and didn't even care about how much her sisters would worry. He was not a baby when he left, i think he was impulsive and inconsiderate and as they said, if it werent Roxant the one her sister had to marry, he could have ruined her sister life, i might be making a big deal out of it, but i feel like that ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
what rubbed me the wrong way is that, I don't think he will join them to come home and visit his father's grave ? Like .... he is not your dad ?? Why not go home, visit your father grave and your sisters, attend her wedding then rejoin again with your love one later? Oscar could go from place to place but they can at least make an appointment right ?

younger brother i still dont like you for leaving and causing leah to marry someone in your place bc what if she didnt marry someone like roxant who she loves and instead was forced to marry some old ass man, not to mention IF THEY DIDNT COME LOOK FOR YOUR ASS WERE YOU EVER GOING TO COME HOME!