Acting like a lover when he's the one who hurt the uke twice ಠ_ಠ

Okay you see that's a BIG RED FLAG. They're not even in a relationship hence the fact the he was the one who rejected the uke TWICE. If he can reject and hurt the uke twice, may it be intentional or unintentional then why can't the uke do it to him? People who can't accept rejection but is the one who rejects are a big meeehhh~ just saying ~