I don't even remember what the lord did (other than be a jerk), can someone remind me?

Used him to get the blonde dude and overthrow him, he didn’t tell him ab the plan and made him suffer and in the process his mom died

Raped Shen Yu, abused him, literally ignores him, forgets about him, breaks his dice, embarrass him, hurt him (mentally), sent him elsewhere, threw him away and wanted him back (づ￣ ³￣)づ
and more

do you know what chapter it was that he raped him?

i dont think I remember.... wait chapter 1-3 I think, it's the marriage