im with you!! taejoo and yoon deserve to be together :(
In my opinion (totally not invaliding yours!) I think Yoon and Tae shouldn’t get back together. They have been each other’s whole world for the majority of their lives. They have kept themselves in their own bubble and not allowed anyone else in. Especially on Yoon’s part. He was lost in the beginning of the story for this very reason. Tae at least had more social skills it seems, but Yoon had none. This breakup forced both of them to grow. Growth that they couldn’t accomplish while together, especially on Yoon’s part. Kwon pushed Yoon to not only better his career, but himself. Something I believe Tae not only couldn’t, but wouldn’t want too. If they were to get back together, one or both would get hurt in the long run and they would resent each other. Yoon would either give up the job he loves or go back into the field once he’s healed. Tae would probably get mad and give him an ultimatum since he wouldn’t want to go through that pain again. I do hope they can get back to being good friends, but their time as lovers have come to a close.
It's a fact that Yoon grew so much as a person when they broke up but for me if two people love each other so much why do they have to be separated. Yeah, people might get hurt in the process but it will just be detrimental to both Tae and Kwon. Isn't it great that they've depended on each other since they were young? Isn't it ok for them to keep themselves in a bubble where they feel like they only have each other? It's not like Tae had been a bad example to Yoon, If I'm not mistaken Tae would encourage Yoon to do whatever he wants, he's probably against Yoon pursuing Journalism because he wants to protect Yoon from danger and I think it's a normal reaction for a partner. I believe Tae might not understand what Yoon currently wants but I believe Tae can be a better person for Yoon in the future and I think being together for a very long time is a good thing. Kwon should find a person who will love him like how Tae loves Yoon a person who will risk everything for him.
*It will be detrimental to both Tae and Kwon if they continue their relationship.
In my opinion, being in a relationship means you will be at peace and in love with your partner. If your partner goes to a warzone of course your partner will worry a lot. Even if Yoon and the other guy became a couple I'm sure he will feel the same way, no one wants your partner to be in danger. In a relationship, you should give and take. Tae doesn't ask that much, he just wants Yoon to stay out of the warzone. My mom loves to help people even if it will affect her mentally and physically, my dad and I hate that about her because we couldn't afford to lose her if she keeps damaging herself.
I totally get where you’re coming from and agree with some of your points. Though, I personally do not find it healthy to be consumed by your partner and your partner alone. That’s why I like Kwon getting Yoon to come out of his shell and learn to speak for himself. They each had such a hard time being their own support because they were used to giving the other that weight to shoulder. There’s nothing wrong with relying on someone, but when you haven’t learned how to care for yourself first, you end up like them crashing hard into this new reality. If I remember correctly, Tae even says to himself that he doesn’t have want to resent Yoon. I feel like at some point in their relationship, Yoon would have to choose between his job and Tae. Kwon understands the risk. He has experienced it firsthand. He will worry, but he would never tell Yoon not to go. He will be his anchor waiting for him to come back. Tae and Yoon will always love each other, but it will never be at the level it was before. Both have been too hurt by the other to go back to how they were before the story started.
Taejoo (protagonist ex) loves Yoon so much, He was so hurt when he thought Yoon won't be waking up. I'm glad Kwon became the light when Taejoo was completely in the dark but I wish Kwon would let go of Taejoo. I wish Kwon knows that clinging to Taejoo would just make him suffer. Yoon and Taejoo are perfect for each other they've been together since they were kids. They had a lot of memories growing up. I wish the author would flip the story and make Taejoo come back to Yoon's life. These are things that don't need to be too logical it's pretty obvious what they should do.