People

in the comments are both right and wrong.

Sure a human is responsible for their own actions and especially for what happens within their own mind, including how they decide to feel and shit. But that does not mean that you cannot respond negatively to someone being irresponsible. The seme might not have had bad intentions, might have actually cared for uke, wanted him properly whatever. But he never said anything. He was ambiguous. Left the uke to interpret what was happening. If you were in his shoes, would you have felt different? I mean sure there are people who kind of don't give a shit about themselves and would throw away their own self just to follow along with feelings and desires and would have dated him for the last couple of days and then be broken forever that he left. Become super dependent or some crap, cause they don't know how to be their own person and take responsibility for their own life properly. But the uke was always very realistic. A person like him has to be very careful. He is used to be alone by default and that the world really does not give a shit who you are and just happens and sometimes you are lucky when you face reality, sometimes you could be a victim of reality....it has nothing to do with YOU, that's just life....so a person used to being alone and do their best to not be swallowed by being swayed by loneliness needs to be very very careful.....because those people are the ones who could become easily swayed by warmth and attention, as it is something they lack more than the average person....so they are like a cat that was stepped on it's tail to much and will be super cautious around humans and others and not let you touch them easily...it is normal....called self-preservation....so the uke is just being a normal human for thinking of the worst things possible....he is being realistic...preparing himself mentally for the worst shit instead of have expectations and then be broken if they are not met....expect nothing or the worst and be prepared for life so it won't break you when it may hit you....so seme was someone who fucked every day some other person....suddenly asked for a month....seemed like he caught on to his feelings....uke found out he is gonna go away for a long time after that month, but didn't tell him....he refused to beak off that one month deal....still remained ambiguous during their times together....then suggests sex...and during it all he looked so weird and not happy or whatever at all....then suddenly after sex...when uke KNOWS how vulnerable and sad he must have looked as he feels that way inside....seme says something his bad-side desired....something he knows he should not want and that would endanger everything he worked so hard for - his freedom -....and suggest the worst thing for his own sanity.....that a person who you think would truly respect and care for you and is about to leave and knows your feelings and wants to protect them would never say....to have a few days of a pretend relationship....who would accept that? what kind of independent person with some sense of virtue and sense of responsibility for their own life and being would accept that? even if your bad-side would want it and would want to say yes and may even scream YES YES YES inside....you will answer no or just leave like he did to not say something you will regret....he is a very responsible person in my eyes especially considering his circumstances and past he is awesome....the seme fucked up on so many levels on his side though as an individual.....he was so irresponsible as an acquaintance....he suggested the relationship they had but failed to uphold his responsibility as the leading role in that...never set something like proper boundaries needed to maintain a relationship properly and responsibly .... stayed ambiguous as he liked and flaunted here and there as he liked sometimes a friend sometimes a teacher sometimes a flirt....never told him anything...never thought the uke deserved to kinda know...even if he didn't ask....it is called empathy ya see...and ah anyway....you could say he did well in not setting boundaries properly so he could have an excuse why he never had to take responsibility in his "role" properly anyway cause "what were we even?"....this is a perfect setting for a bad guy (if seme was a bad guy) to use gaslighting to make it seem like uke was to sensitive and crap....gosh...anyway....dunno if people get what i mean..it is hard to explain....but if you consider things....the only properly mature person who has some virtue and sense of responsibility as an adult independent human being in this story was from the get go the uke....the others were all wishy washy refusing to decide on anything to avoid taking responsibility and just acted no whims and impulses and feelings....both seme and the ex were selfish...but not in a normal way like humans are normal to be selfish...but in a way that dragged other people in their own shit....which is bad...ah blah blah hahaha