it's actually giving a weirdly "if you spread your legs stfu and just spread your legs" vibe is this some kind of weird gender bent misogyny? it's scary the way the bottom is being turned on in the comments for actually being interested in having sex and enthusiastic about it. I know it's not that serious but also... isn't it?
Absolutely! I was kinda thinking the same thing with the whole gender bent misogyny
Cuz like with women, she can be horny and want sex but she has to be almost shy about it and can't actively seek or ask for it or she's too promiscuous or off-putting
It really is just so weird that he's getting so much hate when literally everything about their relationship is consensual and they're actively learning how to communicate their needs to each other
And yeah, it might not be all that serious in this context but it does show a deeper trend of thought that is concerning
Yes! Thank you, so much for this convo. I am gonna follow u .
Aw thanks! You're so sweet and it's always nice to meet like-minded people online ^^ especially when it feels like everyone else disagrees with your opinion, it's nice to have someone to actually listen and have a normal-ish conversation with lol
It seems like when a bottom is always pushing for sex, he's seen as insensitive, even when he's respecting his partner's boundaries but when it's the top, it's just typical yaoi at that point and no one bats an eye even if he's being forceful or coercive