Seriously...

I honestly think she should go back and see the future third husband again. Clearly he isn't the sam, he didn't even get to talk to her not acted as she knows him. I understand why she is afraid but there must be something she doesn't know about. The fact she is even scared of him as a child is true trauma. I don't think we truly KNOW what went on between her and him. Hopefully we learn more as they go on.