truer facts have never been spoken
It may be because mlm relationships are sexualized by the authors of their respective work (and their audience, who are generally women), it's like "That boy was raped, but don't worry, firstly, he is a man and secondly, his rapistHe's handsome and rich, so it's fine." In this work this is half justified by being an omegaverse, although we have the example of the second couple who denies the "I'm an alpha, I couldn't help but rape you" thing since the Alpha waited for the man with the glasses gave him permission.
I've heard someone say that some women who write Yaoi write about men being victims because they where victims of Rape, SA or Abuse because of a man, so in return they write stories of men experiencing what they experienced.
RIGHT??? and the facts that this has so many good ratings when I tell you I was shocked are people okay ??
This isn't really exclusive to mlm though. Rape is used as a plot device in quite a few nsfw works regardless of the gender of the MCs. Bara is written by men for men and the stories are way hardcore and ripe with problematic tropes. So that's hardly a trait unique to women as a consumer.
Rape should never be condoned, it's traumatizing why make the victims get together with their assaulter (if you really want to incorporate it in the plot *side eye*)?! And the victim blaming and shaming- I get that the whole stint with omegaverse is also bringing forth the unfairness/injustice that the whole class system carries BUT is it sooo hard to have decent fucking semes?! Like the bare minimum of "hmm I shouldn't harm someone" even delinquents are humans and you should cross the lines of what makes you human because that just makes you trash and monsterous. Fuck this