Yeah, so I'm like 100% sure their parents themselves don't like each other. He described their house as silent, and with a home similar to his (mother, father, elder sister-me, and younger brother) it's never fcking silent lmaooooo. The root of the problem is definitely their parents. Her sister's reasoning felt flawed to me as well, what do you mean he's the favored child? It actually came across to me like they just wanted the kids to be busy so they won't have to be parents. The sibling's insecurity manifested in opposite ways. Sister lashed out at others while he lashed out on himself. The sister thinks the blame is on everyone but herself while he only ever blames himself. What's more is his sister developed into the kind of person who fcks up other people like their parents did. I'm just glad that he's doing his best to break the cycle.
(Anyways, tmi but in our house there's always noise lol like we talk y'know? I even know the drama in my mom's workplace, their receptionist allegedly stole some money and now she's AWOL ohmygod tea )
Yeah, so I'm like 100% sure their parents themselves don't like each other. He described their house as silent, and with a home similar to his (mother, father, elder sister-me, and younger brother) it's never fcking silent lmaooooo. The root of the problem is definitely their parents. Her sister's reasoning felt flawed to me as well, what do you mean he's the favored child? It actually came across to me like they just wanted the kids to be busy so they won't have to be parents. The sibling's insecurity manifested in opposite ways. Sister lashed out at others while he lashed out on himself. The sister thinks the blame is on everyone but herself while he only ever blames himself. What's more is his sister developed into the kind of person who fcks up other people like their parents did. I'm just glad that he's doing his best to break the cycle.
(Anyways, tmi but in our house there's always noise lol like we talk y'know? I even know the drama in my mom's workplace, their receptionist allegedly stole some money and now she's AWOL ohmygod tea )