Idk m8… uke is getting borderline unbearable atm… like why the fuck did he cry in the ...

Fifi October 16, 2023 2:40 am

Idk m8… uke is getting borderline unbearable atm… like why the fuck did he cry in the car???? Like bitch????? And then later again?????? Like huuuuhhhhh?????

I just feel like there’s a threshold to how naive one can be, and he’s waaay passed that

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    Meru21 October 16, 2023 8:10 am

    There's a very specific reason he breaks down that way. I could spoil it for you if you'd like, but on the off chance you don't want it spoiled, I'll just tell you that every time he cries it's because he's overwhelmed from being triggered.

    Kewpie October 23, 2023 9:15 am

    Spoiler! he wad raped when he was young, so that’s that.

    Fifi October 23, 2023 12:57 pm

    I mean…. That was very obvious in the very first sat. they met… what I’m saying is that the crying outside of the whole sex fright response… is annoying tbh

    Meru21 October 23, 2023 7:59 pm
    I mean…. That was very obvious in the very first sat. they met… what I’m saying is that the crying outside of the whole sex fright response… is annoying tbh Fifi

    That's very typical for someone who has been secually assaulted. Especially if it was recent. It can be annoying to others how overwhelmed they get but they just don't have control over their emotions or insecurities, and they're always afraid of who will hurt them next. It's especially worse for those that have been hurt by someone they loved or trusted. He has the means to be strong. He's shown that. He just needs to regain his self-esteem and self-worth to get his confident back. I just feel sadness when I see him. And the great urge to hug him and tell him everything will be okay. I fee like he doesn't have anyone at all.