Hi girlie, it’s okay to be feeling this way. Nothing wrong with knowing how you’re feeling and yourself. I say have talk or conversation with your partner and communicate what you’re feeling. You guys have been together for 7 years, all those years shouldn’t be wasted without each communicate your needs and wants so everyone is on the same page. Plus, your partner would not know how you’re feeling without you communicating your thoughts to them. Now after the conversation, you will be able to get a clearer picture on how your relationship will move for the future. But the conversation and talking things out needs to happen first, for other steps can take place if they ever do. Wishing you the best, fyi your situation is very common than you think.
Haha thanks for reading that... I couldn't talk to my friends about it cause I didn't want them to blindly take my side and give me advice that wouldn't consider my partner's pov. I'm very grateful for the advice or just any kind of sympathetic words at all haha. Thank you so much kind stranger. This is the first time I've actually talked about this with anyone, it made me feel a little bit better. Thank you
This is very solid advice!!!
Most of us are in agreement that uke's kinda trash （￣へ￣）
On a side uninteresting note, I feel for the seme, kind of in a relationship right now where I feel like my efforts aren't being met equally. I'm contemplating if I should keep this going or not we've been together 7 years and I feel like he's not as affectionate as he was in our first few years together. Even when we were together sometimes I feel like I'm alone, like I'm lonelier when I'm with him than when I'm by myself. I know this might be impossible cause its mostly fiction, but I kinda want a Gomez or this seme right here. I wasn't a people person to begin with and the few people that I do feel comfortable around, I treasure, so I'm kinda clingy, I guess. Is it really too much to ask for an equal amount of affection from your lover back? Anyway, I'm just ranting. Can't believe I'd empathize with a damn bl character ╮(￣▽￣)╭