This is every Fujoshis dream and cuz of that plain fact in it self, gay men find it that they're being sexualize by these female readers. If you don't see how bad that is, it's like a guy wanting to insert themselves in a lesbian relationship for his own entertainment and excitement. That's how bad it is. Why the hell is it a "dream come true" that a gay man falls for you? Now THATS fetishization, Not reading the genre it self, but shit like THAT. This is why SOME gay man complain about us women reading BL, cuz it makes them feel uncomfortable, sexualize & fetishize and honestly at this point, i can't blame them, cuz how the f**k do I even defend my self as a decent reader when the majority of the Fandom thinks this way.
And don't come at me with "bisexuality exist" cuz I know that damn well. I am that. But this is a shitty "representation" and we shouldn't be satisfy with this. Cuz this was not made to represent bisexuality. It was made to satisfy this female authors fantasy with a gay man.
And I know this can happen in real life but I don't think these type of stories need exposure. We're trying to let the world be more accepting of the lgbtq not heterosexuality. I'm sorry but if close minded people got exposed to stories like this, they'll think they were always right, and that homosexualality is just a phase, that they CAN turn back, that their IS hope for humanity, that if they just find the right girl/guy that it IS possible. And that's something we need to try and prevent.
I know for damn sure my parents would say all theses thinks and think this way. They barley understand bisexuality but they still see "HOPE" in them (bisexuals).
This is every Fujoshis dream and cuz of that plain fact in it self, gay men find it that they're being sexualize by these female readers. If you don't see how bad that is, it's like a guy wanting to insert themselves in a lesbian relationship for his own entertainment and excitement. That's how bad it is. Why the hell is it a "dream come true" that a gay man falls for you? Now THATS fetishization, Not reading the genre it self, but shit like THAT. This is why SOME gay man complain about us women reading BL, cuz it makes them feel uncomfortable, sexualize & fetishize and honestly at this point, i can't blame them, cuz how the f**k do I even defend my self as a decent reader when the majority of the Fandom thinks this way.
And don't come at me with "bisexuality exist" cuz I know that damn well. I am that. But this is a shitty "representation" and we shouldn't be satisfy with this. Cuz this was not made to represent bisexuality. It was made to satisfy this female authors fantasy with a gay man.
And I know this can happen in real life but I don't think these type of stories need exposure. We're trying to let the world be more accepting of the lgbtq not heterosexuality. I'm sorry but if close minded people got exposed to stories like this, they'll think they were always right, and that homosexualality is just a phase, that they CAN turn back, that their IS hope for humanity, that if they just find the right girl/guy that it IS possible. And that's something we need to try and prevent.
I know for damn sure my parents would say all theses thinks and think this way. They barley understand bisexuality but they still see "HOPE" in them (bisexuals).