ARO?!?!?!

Weirdest Otaku November 10, 2023 11:46 pm

Is this the first aro BL character???? I wouldn't mind that they don't get together and just remain friends. Need more diversity in the bl community

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    ShenYuan_MeiMei November 11, 2023 12:25 am

    Sadly, that would ruin the manga for me.
    I already planned all their life together as boyfriends...
    If he really is an aro I have no idea how the manga is gonna follow...

    Qxeen_zxy November 11, 2023 12:33 am
    Sadly, that would ruin the manga for me.I already planned all their life together as boyfriends...If he really is an aro I have no idea how the manga is gonna follow... ShenYuan_MeiMei

    Besties with benefits would be how it would go. They do everything a relationship would do without the need for the words “like” or “love”. They can still have a life together. It’s even what he wants. He wants a lifelong friend/partner in crime who doesn’t need to “love” and can simply enjoy each others company both sexually and platonically. Which they already do.

    lostikins November 11, 2023 1:02 am
    Besties with benefits would be how it would go. They do everything a relationship would do without the need for the words “like” or “love”. They can still have a life together. It’s even what he wants... Qxeen_zxy

    Yeah, but that doesn't work if the other person is clearly in love lol

    Like, not dissing aros, but even the ones I know personally understand that they can't just string someone along that has expressed romantic intentions. Especially if the other person is about showing physically that they love someone or needs constant affirmation of their feelings.

    Someone like that wouldn't be able to keep a strictly sexual relationship. It would eventually break them down and cause issues between the two.

    Weirdest Otaku November 11, 2023 1:37 am
    Yeah, but that doesn't work if the other person is clearly in love lolLike, not dissing aros, but even the ones I know personally understand that they can't just string someone along that has expressed romantic... lostikins

    Yeah that's why I am guess if the manga does take that route that maybe seme will find someone who can fall in love with. That would be nice

    Qxeen_zxy November 11, 2023 8:44 am
    Yeah, but that doesn't work if the other person is clearly in love lolLike, not dissing aros, but even the ones I know personally understand that they can't just string someone along that has expressed romantic... lostikins

    That’s fair but the person himself is the one to make the choice. The aro guy isn’t even asking him to not love him. He can love him with no expectations. He doesn’t need to say it but he can show his affections as he always has done. He’s loved him for a while. It wouldn’t change much from how it has been for like the past few weeks/months. It just depends on how emotionally resilient he is. Not everyone will break down and demand more or leave. If it gets hard, they just stop having sex until it’s not difficult anymore. But we can’t make decisions for either of them. Besides, the top was originally in the “no love” category too. It wouldn’t be unreasonable to assume that he can eventually fall back into that category if need be.