Ugh

MinBinWon`•◇•`/ November 26, 2023 1:49 pm

Everytime i read this, it feels like Soohyuk changed, he put less effort and even spend time with other people than his bf just because they are already lovers, like he thinks that everything is okay and chill. He is not taking this seriously at all. Taein is having anxiety, you know its bad when your partner feels that in your relationship. I know that we need some time with our friends or family than your partner. But when he is hanging out with his "Ex crush" "Taking her home" prioritizing her than your bf who is sick is a bit...
I do want them to have a time off, I think its because of spending too much time can really make you think things far ahead, its because Soohyuk actions changed that really affect Taein that leads him thinking Soohyuk lost his interest for him. Even if I were to put in that situation my self esteem would be crushed too, knowing your bf chatting with their ex crush makes you uneasy and think irrational things.

Communication is important. We should hear each other out. Not jumping to conclusion, also be aware to your partner's feelings, don't be insensitive. You may think you're in a happy relationship but still consider to have a deep conversation with them Address any problem, don't hide or change the topic. Don't be afraid to say that you feel jealous, angry or lonely. They might not notice it so that is why you need to communicate,
to tell and to understand them more and for them to understand you.

Both of them are wrong, Taein not reaching out and Soohyuk being insensitive(this word maybe a bit too much for him, but thats how I feel reading this)
This is my opinion.

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