everyone is saying ml is bad but just look he is a child who have a dark past even he neve...

He has no emotional intelligence, very sad for Merhen.

ya but its because of childhood trauma some children stop feeling emotion after the trauma it's sad for both of then

if all the people use that as logic, the criminals will be free... Sure he has trauma but how can a person who has lived quite long never learned to care for someone??? He is badly written and I blame his creator

it's not his fault just put him in his stand and think you never get warm hugs or words but torcher would you be able to comfort someone you'll be confuse what to say what to do you'll think ignoring is better option then hurting them more

Then how can he fell in love with the heroine then?

Tho yes, he has a rough childhood but did he not learn from his friends? He didn't communicate properly, that is the problem.

But you won't blame them from getting angry with the guy. OG Merhen is more pitiful than him. Got ONS thinking she's the other girl, got pregnant, got married but ignored (no communication at least), then got miscarriage, plus a toxic relative. I cried when I read that. It hurts so much.

At least, I understand his sides, but he has a mouth, all he need to do is talk but he didn't. He chose a wrong choice and that makes OG Merhen hurts so much without him knowing about it.

I bet, if it still the OG Merhen, the kids will suffer while residing there and Ains won't do or say any shit about it.

exactly my thoughts!!

That doesn't come even close to justify his behavior. As @Cid said did he learn nothing from his friends? Or you think he ignored his crush when she was pregs like he did with his wife? He had EQ enough to not eff up their lifes but not enough to know that everything ge did to her was effd up? I don't buy it. I get what you said about ignoring. But in no moment he ignored the friends because of his feelings.
Idek how those 2 agreed to let him take the kids to her after the miscarriage... even if they didn't know he knocked her up while calling the blondie's name... do you think she, as a fresh mother, couldn't think seeing small kids would make her feel worse???
And I'm not even sure OG was completely willing... cuz on his pov he said she kept denying whe he kept calling her the other woman's name... and he only went for her after it got out she was pregs. Even comparing her eyes with the same flower as the crush's...
If he have trauma and problems he needs treatment, not a woman to bear his "unintentional" abuse and be his emotional clutch.
Current fl also have problems and it's not to my liking at all. If she really have OG memories and feelings... there's no way she'd me able to accept the twins that easily even knowing it's reincarnation of her siblings. Her constantly projecting them on the reincarnations is also pretty unhealthy.
It's been a while since I saw such unlikable mais characters...

you are right he shouldn't have ignored her it's his fault but as for him he liked the og fl not FL so he must have been confused to what to say to claim her down though he never got close to her after marriage and even after the childs death but he tried to by getting og FL children to meet her but it got worse and he indirectly made her more depressed