Lol in yaoi most of the time when the uke says "stop" he means "I'm fcking loving it but I'm embarassed".
That's why I like more the power bottoms because they say what they like and doesn't like.
I guess this is why it's better to establish a safe word...
I didn't mean to dislike
Yes, power bottoms are great at communicating. Among other things
No worries, the voting buttons are ridiculously close together.
Uke: stop!
Uke: I said to stop
Seme: do you want me to stop?
Uke: that's not what Im saying
Me: then what ARE you saying!? Make up your mind because it is confusing as hell!
I'm glad that the seme stopped and had an actual conversation with the uke. But come on, uke's need stop yelling no and stop when they don't actually mean it in that way. They need to make more of an effect at communicating too. If a partner does something to you you don't like sexually, bring it up to them so they won't do it again next time. If the seme hadn't asked him what was wrong, would the uke have taken the time to explain to him why he was screaming no one second like he was being raped and then saying don't stop the next? Ultimately, sex is a two way street and it is up to each person to set boundaries of what they are willing to do or accept. But your partner won't know if you don't tell them!