Assault in this story is framed so non seriously

This author has such a horrible issue with writing boundaries especially cause none of her character except our main guy respects em.

The author treats sexual assault as like a silly fight rather than a horrific crossing of one boundaries. Like Adrian crosses the boundaries forces him so many times Kyle even punched him at one time but he ignored and kept going. You could say "but Kyle hasn't left him so it's mutual" while yes Kyle still loves him even now (even doe he def shouldn't) it's just because the author doesn't seem to understand the gravity of the actions their characters are doing. Or maybe they find it hot or smth. Idk dawg all ik is that its weird and has sullied their relationship.