Guys I'm shocked. I just saw on Twitter a girl who turned 14 and her cake was with ...

No, I don’t think you’re exaggerating. BL whether it’s toxic or not should not be read by minors.

oh hell nah that's horrendous that girl needs to drop bls and pick an algebra book immediately

That’s really bad and it’s gonna affect her later. 14??? Not even 17 atleast??? Oh god no

hell nah did her parents not resource check before they let her have that kind of cake??

That makes me so uncomfortable and I'm glad I didn't see that shit.....

So, we all didn't start reading BL when we were way too young.

you just missed the part where the girl is obsessed? over a character but even so its not even a good character, dudes toxic as hell

everyone in the replies should get off their fucking high horse. i started reading yaoi when i was 10, it's not a big fucking deal. don't act like her being a minor has anything to do with it. stop gatekeeping sex related shit from minors, believe it or not, minors also feel sexual arousal! don't act like y'all weren't clicking on the "i'm 18" button on porn sites.
the only valid issue here is that she actually loves jaekyung unironically. jk isn't a good love interest and if the girl thinks this is what an actual lover should act like then THAT'S a problem. talk about that.
"bl should not be read by minors" so i guess queer minors should just be forced to read straight shit 24/7 instead? again, get off your moral high horse.

hahaha trueee, anyways i wanna know jaekyung's plan... he's clearly not drunk and i think he's trying to find out what's up with doc dan lately... and why he's hurt and all. shit if his reaction to the gift& thought is rude idk anymore jaekyung(￣∇￣")

Trueeee, when they're the one who spread this on internet!!! But still it's up to them if they are in their right mind or are educated by their parents, and now they humiliate minors?

What? There is no need to be so rude about it. Idk but everytime I read about kids reading yaoi/porn or be on Twitter tweeting nsfw stuff, I just feel like they have a really busy parent or a parent that doesnt care about them/doesnt know how to be a parent/doesnt have a safe space to talk about their sexuality which is sad really. You are saying a 14 year old kid can really understand whats toxic and whats not? Be fr. But I guess they can somewhat if they have good parents that can talk openly about this.

And besides if you have a niece/nephew or little brother/sister reading Jinx at age of 10 are you going to encourage them or what? Look sure a lot of people were exposed to nsfw bl stuff at a young age, but lets not normalize it shall we? Letting kids at an early age exposed to porn is just not normal. They can all learn about sex in sex education. Again, the problem is mostly about the parents and to some degree how close off their culture/the country they lives in.

Oh and there is another BL genre called shounen ai without the nsfw stuff in case you didnt know

Both of you are on point, but sometimes minor can be anywhere on internet and parents are not IRRESPONSIBLE because these days we need gadgets and it's not like they monitor their child 24/7 right? They have their own job/work that needs to be prioritize. of course I'm also one of the minors have done that and through this it can satisfy my sexual desire without touching anyone in person, if you're against with this then why not report it and make a public statement that porn or beyond 18 age vid must be illegalize.

(づ￣ ³￣)づ factors people, factors
internet and resources very accessible to all who's capable...
not all 14 yrs old are as pure as we all thought... i mean, if they're smart/curious enough to find it, it'll be up for them how they'll grow up with all the info they've digested.
parents should take responsibility if it turned out to be a really bad influence for the innocent child... they're there to guide but not make decisions for the children at all times.
but yo, children down 13 should really play/study first... I'm only stating all this assuming that this 14 yrs old person is responsible enough to think about their self. shout-out to their parent for not investigating, or perhaps accepting this child's exploration towards self.
huhu what has this world gone to（￣へ￣）let's not argue anymore we don't even know who this person is fr
let's all wait for the next chapter... thank you (●'◡'●)ﾉ

"You are saying a 14 year old kid can really understand whats toxic and whats not?" no i didn't. where did you see that in my reply?
"And besides if you have a niece/nephew or little brother/sister reading Jinx at age of 10 are you going to encourage them or what?" i'm not going to discourage them bc it's none of my fucking business. besides, my cousin reading yaoi is a completely different situation than op crying about some random minor reading yaoi - don't try to compare them.
what i'm saying is this really ain't that serious. we all had shitty people we found hot/idolized when we were young. guess what? the world wasn't over. we all lived! it's really not that deep she got a cake with jk's face - it's cringey and embarrassing for her at best. she'll get over it, as will you.

"everytime I read about kids reading yaoi/porn or be on Twitter tweeting nsfw stuff, I just feel like they have a really busy parent or a parent that doesnt care about them/doesnt know how to be a parent/doesnt have a safe space to talk about their sexuality which is sad really."
bro that is so fucking judgemental it's not even funny. seriously? if a child is tweeting about sex related stuff, it doesn't mean they have a shitty parent or no "safe space to talk about their sexuality", their twitter account IS THEIR SAFE SPACE! the only duty you have as an adult when you see tweets like that from minors is to block them!
also twitter is such a.... sanitized place, i guess? like people from twitter find some fucking issue with you if you breathe wrong.
kids watch porn, kids watch gay porn, kids read terrible shitty porn, kids sometimes idolize shitty men. these are all part of growing up. a teenager putting jk's face on her cake doesn't mean her parents are irresponsible, can you guys stop projecting?

it's crazy but there are many like her but to be obsessed with this fiction character is a bit extreme and especially a toxic ones. just let them figure it out for themselves. even though they are stubborn but the world is not what they expected

First of all, Jaekyung is a homosexual man and the fact that girls or even women in general at that are simping for a fictional character that is not attracted to their gender is weird as hell. But that's not what I wanna talk about, it's the fact that this is teaching a minor at a young age to fetishize gay men and to treat them like objects, that's something that should not be normalized just because, as you said, "It's part of growing up". Children being in adult spaces is how grooming happens, because the adult assumes that you are also an adult and when you lie about your age that gets them in trouble. After all, the adult is the one that should be held accountable the most since they are more responsible and mature according to what people think. However, it's also the minors fault and being in those spaces you call "safe" could really fuck up their mentality and turn them into hypersexual perverted freaks like the ones we see on this site everyday, and we have no way of knowing if they're an adult or a minor, see where I'm getting at? I'm not saying they shouldn't learn about sex, that's why sexual education exist and porn could somewhat help them understand visually what it is. But still... I know that most adults would not feel comfortable being in a space for them with minors lying about their ages and shit, I know I wouldn't.

i know you DID NOT just say it's the minors fault for allowing themselves to be groomed?
"the adult is the one that should be held accountable" VS "it's also the minors fault and being in those spaces" the which is it you victim blaming piece of shit?
"Jaekyung is a homosexual man and the fact that girls or even women in general at that are simping for a fictional character that is not attracted to their gender is weird as hell." jaekyung doesn't fucking exist holy shit. he doesn't give a shit whether a girl thirsts after him. even if he was, are girls not allowed to find gay men attractive??? let's apply your batshit logic to real life. is everyone in this world instinctively supposed to know EVERYONE'S sexuality? like you walk by on a street and everyone you pass by you learn their sexuality through some kind of hivemind? what the fuck? what happens if i find a gay man attractive? do i get crucified now?
"i know that most adults would not feel comfortable being in a space for them with minors lying about their ages and shit, I know I wouldn't" WHY are you talking about minors lying about their age on SNS? i only brought that up in relation to porn sites - most of us have lied and said we are 18+ to watch porn on, get this, PORN sites. not SNS!

i know JINX isn't really famous for having the smartest people as its readers but hooooly shit dude. you cannot be real for now. you really have the audacity to say minors are responsible for getting groomed? please get off twitter. you guys have the most basic, absolutely childish, naive, idiotic, self righteous, puritan opinion on everything. let me guess. you're one of those morons who think OnlyFans is "ruining modern women"? you think watching "too much porn" fucks young kids up when it's been proven again and again that's absolutely not the case?
for the sake of everyone in your life, get a brain transplant.

I have a habit of wording things the wrong way, especially when I'm fucking sleepy as hell, and that is NOT what I meant. I never meant to imply and say that it's their fault for being groomed when they are in adult spaces, what I meant to say was the adult is at most to blame when having contact with one, but I'm also saying that this is the reason why it's dangerous for minors to go on an SMS or porn sites as you mention because there are many disgusting people on the internet that would do who knows what when they speak to a minor online, that was the point I was making when you mention about them using it as a "safe space" which is fucking crazy because how tf can a space created for adults be a safe space? And I didn't mean to make it look as, "Oh! Well, it's the minor fault for being groomed because they shouldn't be in there and blah blah blah!" Again totally fucking worded wrong which is my fault! But the rest of the shit I said away from that is what I will still stand on because regardless if it's fictional or real life, the author made the character have a sexuality for a reason and I never said you can't find homosexual people hot, but trying to romantically or sexually have attraction towards them is weird because you are invading the sexuality that the author gave their character. That's like saying murder in fiction can be justified because it's not real, like, just because the character is not real doesn't mean you are free to do whatever unspeakable shit you do that is mortally wrong in real life. And the reason why I'm talking about SMS is because porn sites have comment sections and perverted old fucks, and I seen the comments they make on there so I know what the fuck I'm talking about. Also, I never said people will know your sexuality just by looking at you, but because you don't fucking know them personally or know who they are romantically/sexually attracted to, you shouldn't even be making advances on random people in the first place so that example is fucking a shit take.