ok he seems to be a proper man and all but why would it get better in longterm to just make him depend on another person. I can understand the need of independency so well and kind of have to cringe by the thought of just one more well-you-live-with-me-all-will-be-good-we-will-never-break-up-the-end thing. not that that lovers can't live together, but from the start? Then he wouldn't even once stand on his own feed before deciding a possible future together. But bc the guy really seems to like him maybe he could help finding a solution in that respect?
ok he seems to be a proper man and all but why would it get better in longterm to just make him depend on another person. I can understand the need of independency so well and kind of have to cringe by the thought of just one more well-you-live-with-me-all-will-be-good-we-will-never-break-up-the-end thing. not that that lovers can't live together, but from the start? Then he wouldn't even once stand on his own feed before deciding a possible future together. But bc the guy really seems to like him maybe he could help finding a solution in that respect?