I hope people realize that it's not only gay men who sometimes marry without love. Sure, in these types of stories it happens since its bl, but there's so many cases, more than you'd think of people marrying without being in love. Not just men too, recently in a tiktok video of this women going to her engagement party saying "when I'm still not over my ex" and the comments flooded with men and women comments saying "real". It's sad and scary to see how many people do this when they still have someone else in mind, but I don't think its right just to single out gay people that might do this when it seems like alot of people do it. My parents were actually an arranged marriage, even though they may not love each other like in dramas or books we read, they still have a good relationship together, it may be sad or not ideal for people but that's the world we live in sadly.
I hope people realize that it's not only gay men who sometimes marry without love. Sure, in these types of stories it happens since its bl, but there's so many cases, more than you'd think of people marrying without being in love. Not just men too, recently in a tiktok video of this women going to her engagement party saying "when I'm still not over my ex" and the comments flooded with men and women comments saying "real". It's sad and scary to see how many people do this when they still have someone else in mind, but I don't think its right just to single out gay people that might do this when it seems like alot of people do it. My parents were actually an arranged marriage, even though they may not love each other like in dramas or books we read, they still have a good relationship together, it may be sad or not ideal for people but that's the world we live in sadly.