Picture being in her shoes and being treated as if you're useless and worthless. Would you suddenly grow a fucking backbone overnight? No, that is the answer. She isn't weak, she is still healing from the mistreatment. She acknowledges that she is struggling, so she isn't stupid.
Not that this any of your busness, but i been in her shoes and guess what i was able to brush it of and it wasn't bcs i got married in a familly that loved me it was bcs i did BY MYSELF and overnight. So yes for me she's stupid, bcs why tf would you let ppl treat you like garbage and still be nice to them even if you know that there trying to manipulate/hurt/use you. I can understand that she's struggling, but for god sake have sum character, impose yourself, DO SMT. But then again this is just my opinion and you have yours (but u know nothing about me so dont judge pls)
Listen here, I have been her shoes as well, I certainly didn't grow a backbone over, everyone's traumas and healing has different situations and healing time. Good for you for managing to do it over night, not everyone is like that nor has the luxury to be able to suddenly fight back. She is very realistic with her healing process, she has her jos and downs, her achievements and her setbacks, she is only HUMAN. sometimes, people needs encouragement and a little push. Clearly you don't understand that.
*overnight
Hear me as well, It seems like you're minimizing my experience. It was not a luxury, it was a mind set and a objective that I fixed for me, by me and it certainly not sum random person on the internet who's going to criticizing me for something i worked for. And if you had read my respond like any basic humain would have done you would notice that i said "i understand her but..." bcs FOR YOU i might seem realistic but for me it is NOT. bcs the moment i get myself in a situation where i dont need to see the ppl who mistreated me, am gonna treat them the same way they did to me. Like you said "sometimes, people needs encouragement and a little push. Clearly you don't understand that." in the situation of the fl she got a supporting familly to back her up. which i didnt have the "luxury" nor the ressource, but maybe you did and that good for you. But dont come at my neck putting word in my mouth that i nvr said and insinuates things about me OK.
Then you shouldn't be putting the FL down for being how she is. She isn't stupid nor lacks personality. She did the best she could to do things on her own and she had her set backs. It's only just the beginning for her no matter how many chapters deep we are in.
dropping it. i hate FL with no personality, stupid and cant say no