It’s a little bit toxic and immature, and the lack of communication between them is ludi...

Muffatha69 February 12, 2024 8:33 pm

It’s a little bit toxic and immature, and the lack of communication between them is ludicrous! What’s wrong on communicating with your partner???!!!! How hard is that? And the ex ughhh don’t even get me started!!!

Responses
    totticollector May 1, 2025 11:34 am

    Communication seem simple but it's incredibly hard. Insecurities, personality, past trauma, learned behaviors all of those will have an impact in the way a couple communicates.

    It's not easy to have honest conversations with your partner:
    "What if I hurt them?"
    "What if I get hurt?"
    "What if they don't like me anymore?
    "I won't say anything because they should already know!"
    "I don't want to cause trouble."
    "I don't want to disappoint."

    And so on. If communication was easy the divorce rate would drop down to single digits.

    Ainekomoishuu May 13, 2025 2:49 pm

    While I agree as I am single, I myself worry if I can communicate when I am in a relationship