Tbh, rather than blaming the big brother I feel very sad for the children of lin family. Like who in the right mind ask their children in the midst of chaos "you haven't done any mistake, right? " Like who tf??? And i will tell you that i am really like a big brother exclude the part of the giving things of my siblings. As a oldest daughter I have been expected not to have any flaw and forgive things very easily even when I am very upset about it. And now. Everything seems to tired me that now I take blame so there won't be any more yelling and screaming. So yes. I can understand his perspective very well but it doesn't make things he did right.
Tbh, rather than blaming the big brother I feel very sad for the children of lin family. Like who in the right mind ask their children in the midst of chaos "you haven't done any mistake, right? " Like who tf??? And i will tell you that i am really like a big brother exclude the part of the giving things of my siblings. As a oldest daughter I have been expected not to have any flaw and forgive things very easily even when I am very upset about it. And now. Everything seems to tired me that now I take blame so there won't be any more yelling and screaming. So yes. I can understand his perspective very well but it doesn't make things he did right.