Well, by your logic, instantly divorcing without conversation is a bit childish, don’t you think? The point of communicating is “understanding” and in order to understand, you have to be willing to listen or hear the other person out without immediate judgment. We’re not trying to win fights here, we’re trying to resolve them! So don’t focus on how you can win them but on how you can come together and resolve them. Also, it’s okay to be upfront with them when they mess up because there’s no point in sugar coating things like that! Bringing awareness can help prevent similar situations in the future.
i think abuse is such a big word to use in their situation especially hazuki has a valid reason to feel towards naoto's interaction with other men especially due to his nature. There are actions that were meant as a protection but can be perceived as a control towards a person. If you can recall naoto's interaction with men throughout the series, he was always dominated and can be physically manipulated easily. Hazuki might have build up emotions witnessing how vulnerable can naoto be, causing him to be possesive. I also think naoto's response is irresponsible knowing how hazuki might process being swept away like that. Again, hazuki witnessed and heard how oblivious naoto can be to his environment. Their unresolved issues speaks loud in this chapter and i really hope they will overcome all of it to continue their relationship with a new perspective about each other and their way of communicating their feelings.
What even is the point of your reply to me... obviously the "instant" is hyperbolic so idk why you think i need a lesson in communication when I'm critiquing a comic book....
Like completely ignoring everything else I said and just focusing on the one hyperbolic word...?
Just no... like if this is what you and a lot of the ppl in the comments think there's nothing I can say that would change your mind. Abuse is unfortunately very normalized and defended in our society and "omegaverse" is kinda just an AU used to justify many forms of abuse too so I'm not even gonna bother getting into it
All I'll say is , if you think it's normal for your partner to be that level of jealous and retaliate against you, whenever you speak to anyone not blood related, it's a problem no matter the circumstances. At the end of the day this is fiction they will be fine again in one chapter but the core message is still very harmful to take into the real world.
Also the word is "isolation" not "protection"....aka a form of abuse...
I think some of yall need to reevaluate what "healthy" means because that comment irl would be instant divorce....istg bl authors think ppl (well more like ukes and omegas) aren't allowed to have any friends or speak to anyone apart from their partner, you know what that's called? Abuse....
Like even by this man's dumb omegaverse logic, the "threat" would be alphas yet he's always jealous over him having all omega and beta friends...
Like everything about this is is just awful....authors always wanna dump shit in for drama but these are not things you should come back from...these are break up get insane amounts of therapy fix yourself and then find a new partners shit not keep having kids so ppl ignore the red flags cuz chibi...
It's healthy to *talk* about difficult subjects and I agree these two haven't really delved into that, you know why? Cuz the author keeps making the dude pregnant (and we eat it up chibi are my weakness too I get it TT) but berating your partner everytime you feel slighted (because they dared to make eye contact with someone that wasn't you) and throwing their trauma in their face isn't healthy it's simply abusive....this isn't how you start a conversation this is how you end relationships tf....
It's also absolutely insane to me that some ppl are like "it's okay he's young he doesn't understand how to process his emotions yet" but he's old enough to raise three whole kids and run a company?? Like we can suspend logic enough to believe that but not that he can behave maturely?? and simply have a conversation with his partner without blaming, yelling and hurting them??? 23 is old enough to know not to throw your partners sexual assault in their face and use it to control their social circle the actual hell... "well Naoto should've been more clear" well Hazushitshow could've not been abusive too how about that...Just wild that people are eating this up and calling it "exciting drama" when it's the most clear cut form of abuse TT
Like I really need yall to contextualize what happened
~ Naoto spoke with a neighbor ~
Haruki yelled at him telling "you know i get jealous" "you listen to the worries of ppl you get close to" (?????? Like friends do????) "You're too trusting you're gonna get raped so you can't say you were "just giving advice" (the fucking logic???) "You need to grow up" (....just....eyeroll....) "your sense of danger is lacking" (the danger being...his neighbor...his child's school teacher....his child's friend's mother....aka anyone he ever speaks to....) all this is bad enough but saying all this to someone who actually was raped in the past....like yall are really crazy downplaying what he's done and been doing and just calling him "jealous" "possessive" and "healthy"????