I’m happy, but one thing I don’t understand is why does the seme like the uke if he th...

I’m happy, but one thing I don’t understand is why does the seme like the uke if he thought that the uke was the type of person to walk all over him while ignoring his feelings? I can understand the uke being oblivious because has a low self esteem, but in the eye of the seme it looks like the uke was a terrible person